When Keith and I visited India in 2006 we had dinner with Ahmed’s family.
Keith and the men folk went off together and I was left with the women and children. We were presented as husband and wife. The house had been tidied and arranged for our visit. Asmat’s English was very good and in the course of conversation she asked me how Keith and I had met. I said we had gone to high school together. Her face broke into a huge smile. “Ah” she said “So it is a love marriage!” From then on we were known as Mr and Mrs Keith.